October 19

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Sleep Your Way to Success: 5 Sleep Secrets for Peak Rest and Performance

By jennifersilbert

October 19, 2023

healthy sleep habits, melatonin, mental wellbeing, sleep and success, sleep disorders, sleep science, sleep secrets

In the throes of my glorious pre-menopause days, I found myself in a feisty dance-off with sleep. The harder I tried to woo it, the more it played hard to get.

At the height of my tussle with sleep I endured a desperate 3 month period of insomnia during which nothing I tried gave me relief.  That included one infamous midday “date” with some anxiety meds, a glass of sultry red wine and a cozy warm bath (I know, don’t judge please!).

Sleep and I were like two magnets repelling each other.

Although sleep eventially resolved without serious repurcussions, that entire saga sent me down a rabbit hole of google time, devouring all I could about the intricate waltz of sleep science. I learned so much about the natural workings of the brain and the connection between sleep/mental health that I pursued further education, eventually becoming a certified Sleep Science coach.

Fast forward to today, and sleep and I are in a harmonious relationship. I now embrace and value sleep as a secret weapon for success.  My body and brain are now treated like VIPs, given the important role they play in my life.

But what about you? Chasing success, doing it all, compromising on sleep and wearing it like a badge of honor?

In today's blog, we’re going to talk all things sleep, including:

  • the magic your brain and body perform while you’re snoozing,
  • the real cost of ignoring this free nightly spa treatment,
  • the pros and cons of using melatonin as a sleep aid, and
  • 5 surefire strategies to ensure you get that quality beauty rest.

Let’s go!

The Science Behind Sleep

When you snuggle into your bed at night, you're not just signing off from the world for a few hours. You’re stepping into an intricate dance of healing, processing, and rejuvenating.

Sleep, as mundane as it might seem, is a mysterious, yet essential part of our lives. It's not just about catching a fantastic dream. The real magic lies in the unseen, beneath the veil of our consciousness.

Here are three amazing facts about what happens to your body during sleep.

     1.  Brain Repair and Memory Consolidation

During sleep, your brain gets busy. It starts categorizing, processing, and organizing memories. It’s the cerebral equivalent of decluttering your room after a hectic week. This not only helps in memory retention but also ensures that you can recall and apply information effectively when needed.  Without adequate quality sleep, your brain doesn’t have a chance to do that job. 

     2.  Emotional Regulation

Ever snapped at someone after a restless night? We've all been there. A solid night of sleep helps regulate our emotions, ensuring we wake up with a clearer, calmer perspective. It steadies the emotional seas, allowing us to handle life's waves—big or small—with a little more grace and resilience.

     3. Physical Restoration

But the wonders don't stop at the brain. While you're in the world of dreams, your body is on active duty. Especially during those deep sleep phases, it's all systems go: muscles are being repaired, growth hormones are released, and your body's cells get their much-needed tune-up. Think of it as your body's pit-stop, ensuring everything's running smoothly for the race ahead.  Or think of sleep as a built-in spa session for your brain.

Sleep isn't just the body's way of recharging. It's the mind's buffer zone.

So, the next time you consider skipping on sleep, remember it’s not just about resting your eyes. It’s about giving your body and brain the VIP treatment they deserve.

The Real Cost of Sleep Deprivation

Pulled an all-nighter expecting superhero productivity the next day? Reality check: Skimping on sleep doesn’t just leave you dragging your feet—it clouds judgment and stifles problem-solving. Beyond the foggy brain, chronic sleep deprivation plays host to a troublesome trio: heart disease, obesity, and diabetes.

Mentally, the stakes are equally high.

Regular sleep shortages might seem like a minor inconvenience, but they can lay the groundwork for mood disorders like depression and anxiety. After all, our minds need downtime just as our bodies do. If you're skeptical about the true impact of sleep loss, this Harvard Medical School report breaks down its far-reaching consequences.

Remember, sleep isn't a luxury—it's a foundational pillar of well-being.

Sleep's Impact on Productivity and Creativity

Ever felt everything falling into place after a good night's sleep? That's sleep, your brain's own 'reset' button, clearing the clutter and letting you see things with newfound clarity. But it's not just about feeling refreshed; sleep turbocharges creativity by defragging your mind, so to speak, setting the stage for those Eureka moments.

Sure, that third cup of coffee promises a buzz, but it's fleeting compared to the sustained energy and focus sleep delivers. Instead of just staying awake, you're more alert and efficient. Tackling that hefty to-do list? A breeze after quality rest.

Not convinced? This study from the Sleep Foundation dives into how sleep affects our cognition, productivity, and work performance. So, think twice before skimping on those precious Z's; they might be your best productivity tool.

The Balancing Act of Sleep Aids

In the quest for a night of sound sleep, you might have thought about turning to a sleep aid for help.  There are a range of options, from natural remedies like essential oils and melatonin, to over-the-counter remedies to prescription medications, each promising the allure of restful nights.

However, there is no one-size-fits-all, you'll need to experiment to get just the right fix, and many sleep aids come with their own set of pros and cons.

One highly popular choice of sleep aid is melatonin.  It's cheap, easy to get, and believed to be "natural" and safe.  But, is it?

The Low-Down on Melatonin. 

Melatonin is often referred to as the "sleep hormone." It's organically produced by the pineal gland in the brain and plays a vital role in regulating the body's internal clock, or circadian rhythm. This rhythm determines when we feel alert and when we feel sleepy, roughly aligning with the day-night cycle.  So, the body already produces melatonin and our job is to support the body in doing its job.

However, facets of modern day life (like shift work and via electricity and computer screens) disrupt the body's natural processes along with our sleep.  So we turn to sleep aids like melatonin.  But like any popular remedy, it's essential to sift through the buzz and understand both its promises and pitfalls.

On the plus side…

Melatonin is a natural hormone.  It is great for temporary relief in helping the body reset its internal clock if it has been disrupted (like with jet lag). There is minimal dependency risk and fewer side effects than prescription sleep aids.

On the other hand…

Melatonin doesn't work for everyone.  Some people may not notice any improvement in sleep, while others may experience too much drowsiness.  There also isn't a standardized dose for melatonin. The right amount can vary significantly from one person to another, making it challenging to determine the correct dose.Because it's available over-the-counter in many places, there's a risk of  assuming it's harmless and taking too much. Melatonin can also interact with various medications, including blood thinners, blood pressure medications, and immunosuppressants.  While melatonin is considered safe for short-term use, the long-term effects of melatonin supplementation aren't well-understood.

The worst part?

Using melatonin regularly hijacks the body’s own production of melatonin, disrupting your natural rhythm.  In essence, it can really screw you up!

When considering melatonin as a sleep aid, it's essential to consult with a healthcare professional. They can provide guidance tailored to individual circumstances and help determine if melatonin is a suitable choice. For more in-depth insights, consider reading studies or articles on reputable health websites like Mayo Clinic or WebMD.

Five Sleep Secrets to Peak Rest and Performance

Your nightly toolkit for rejuvenating rest


In the bustling rhythm of modern life, catching those quality sleep can sometimes feel like a luxury. But, in reality, it's a non-negotiable if you're aiming for sustained health, happiness, and productivity. So, if you're tired (pun intended) of tossing and turning, or just looking to up the ante on your sleep game, check out my top five solid sleep secrets to give you that restorative slumber you've been dreaming of.

  1. Prioritize Regularity: Make it a rule to tuck into bed and rise with the sun at the same times every day, even during those tempting weekend lie-ins. Your body will appreciate the routine, setting an internal rhythm that soon becomes second nature. For many adults, melatonin starts to be produced around 9 PM, peaking between 2 AM and 4 AM, and decreasing by dawn. Therefore, aiming to be asleep before midnight, preferably around 10 PM to 11 PM, can best support your sleep.
  2. Build a Sleep Sanctuary: Transform your bedroom into a tranquil oasis. Ensure it's cool, dark, and free from distractions.  Don't put your office in your bedroom.  Don't even use it for secret huddles to discuss problems.  You want it to be a calm sanctuary.  Consider adding calming elements like lavender essential oils or ambient sounds of nature to enhance the ambiance. Your bedroom is more than a room; it's a place for restoration.
  3. Turn Off and Tune Out: Electronic devices, with their pesky blue light, are the arch-nemesis of melatonin, our sleep-inducing hormone. Instead of late-night social media or emails, how about reaching for that book you've been meaning to read? Not only will you rest better, but you'll also be ahead on your reading list.
  4. The Perfect Pre-sleep Ritual:  Think of sleep as a date that needs a bit of courting.  Give yourself a transition period and set the tone for a restful night with activities that signal to your body it's time to wind down. Whether it's a warm, soothing bath, soft background music, or a few minutes of prayer or meditation, find what lulls you into a state of relaxation.
  5. Stay Active, Sleep Better: Physical activity can significantly boost the quality of your sleep. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week. But be wary of timing; too close to bedtime might leave you more awake.

By incorporating these five tips into your routine, not only will you elevate the quality of your sleep, but you'll also find yourself more easily getting to sleep, staying asleep, and waking up with a renewed sense of clarity, energy, and zest for the day ahead.  That is a formula for success!

Let's Wrap it Up!

Chasing dreams doesn’t mean cutting back on sleep. It means accepting and embracing sleep as a necessary, vital facet of your wellbeing and success. 

So, whether you're launching a business, climbing the corporate ladder, or just wanting to be the best version of yourself - stop short changing your body and brain of essential sleep.  Prioritize those zzz's.

And remember, in the journey to success, make sure you’re not asleep at the wheel. Instead, get your essential sleep so you can take the wheel with more precision, clarity, and zest. 😉

Got some other suggestions that work for you?   Let’s chat in the comments below. 🌟


Sleep Prep for Daylight Savings

With the onset of daylight savings time, your sleep can be drastically disrupted.  It can take days and even weeks to return to normal.  Who has time for that?  You can actually prepare for the change to minimize the impact on your body.  Check out this article from the National Sleep Foundation and set yourself up for sleep success this season!


About the author

Jen Silbert is a seasoned life coach who empowers achievers to shatter mental blocks, bolster resilience, and foster a winning mindset, equipping them to confidently navigate challenges and thrive in any scenario.  Get ready to rise and shine!

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